Sexual selection by females is a driving force of evolution. It’s not just biological — it’s emotional and spiritual. The choices women make in who they allow into their bodies, their hearts, their lives — this is an act of creation. These choices ripple out into the world, shaping not only their lives, but the very fabric of collective consciousness and human evolution.
I know a thing or two about motivation and discipline, and I’m not just speaking from my experience as a fitness/figure/bodybuilding competitor.
This is an unconscious fiercely independent behaviour you developed in the hope to come off as “more attractive and desirable” to a partner.
Shadow work provides the opportunity to dissolve the once unconscious egocentric aspects of self so that you can be who you truly are and experience the life you truly desire.
Often when people realise that I’m a Sexologist they assume that I’m sexually open, overt and promiscuous.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Pornography promotes and perpetuates unrealistic expectations regarding male sexuality and performance.
Most of us vulva owners were fully grown adults when our pleasure organ was fully acknowledged by scientists.
Most people who have been socialised as female have been taught to put everyone else before themselves and not have an opinion. This shows up everywhere in life, especially within intimacy.
Knowing and trusting my body, sensuality and sexuality enables me to enjoy and express myself, and live like never before!










