Entries by Kate

Infidelity

When we look at infidelity with an intra-psychic and relational lens there are many happenings and perspectives.

Monogamy, Consensual Non-Monogamy, and Polyamory

An open relationship should not be pushed. There’s no space for narcissism. Unconditional love is not unconditional tolerance. No one benefits when people are forced to stretch their values. The conversation needs to be explored in a mature and safe way with no agenda to avoid conflict or hurt. Agreements, boundaries, desires, fears and reassurance are the focus. No clarity creates chaos!

Empowering Vulva Owners

Most people who have been socialised as female have been taught to put everyone else before themselves and not have an opinion. This shows up everywhere in life, especially within intimacy.