Pain, Discomfort or Lack of Sensation
Pain, discomfort or lack of sensation often comes with stress, anxiety, frustration, lowered desire and avoiding intimacy.
Penetrative sex use to be painful, uncomfortable, and incredibly frustrating for me – Embarrassing to share but it’s the truth. So you know you’re not alone.
Clitoral pleasure was fine, but deep vaginal/womb pleasure was just too painful and frustrating. I tried all the known techniques with no success, and I didn’t want to believe that I’d have to live with these limitations.
Throughout my years of curiosity, study and experience, I discovered that pain, discomfort and lack of sensation are common.
Common but NOT Normal
There are many reasons for why our bodies do this. It can be linked to past painful intercourse, trauma, and a history of stress. Many who experience pain or lack of sensation, are super fit dancers, yogi’s, and gym junkies, some lead super busy lifestyles, and some have experienced trauma.
Trauma doesn’t have to have come from past sexual abuse or painful intercourse. If you’ve ever had a great love making session and the next day you’ve been in enough pain to put you off penetrative sex for a few days, this is enough to affect your vulva in many ways.
Your healing during this time involves the vaginal opening and walls forming scar tissue. This is a natural and normal part of healing. Tissues within the body stick (adhere) to other internal surfaces or tissue. Adhesions form as the body attempts to heal itself. This is a normal response, but adhesions block the flow of blood, nutrients and life force, and this naturally affects feeling and sensation.
All of this can be restored to healthy, normal, open, and relaxed, with pleasurable sensation, and I want to show you how.
Life guided me to this work for my own embodied healing, and this naturally inspired passion, and desire to study Somatic Sexology and Sexological Bodywork to become certified to share this incredible work with others. I’m very passionate about helping others reconnect to their power and pleasure.
I’m your sister and friend, I’ve had the opportunity to figure this out for my own healing, and I have the training and experience to share this with you.
You can have deep and expansive pleasure too – it is possible! And just notice how this benefits every area of your life!
If this feels like something you’d like to know more about please email or message to schedule a free 15-minute phone conversation.