• Kate Alderman Somatic Sexologist

Kate Alderman

Reconnecting you to the power and pleasure of love and intimacy!

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Kate Alderman Somatic Sexologist

Hi! My name is Kate

I’m a Somatic Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, ISTA I & II (International School Temple Arts), Master Your Pleasure and Shamanic Womb Graduate, Landmark Graduate, Author and Workshops Facilitator. I have the training and experience to support you in embodying more pleasure and reclaiming sexual empowerment.

I’m very passionate about empowering people to thrive in love, pleasure, relationships and life!

I offer sex and relationship coaching, embodied therapy and somatic education to individuals, couples and I enjoy facilitating a range of workshops and events.

I’ve presented at retreats and festivals such as Taste Of Love, One World Tantra, Feast, The Edge and Illuminate.

I combine many years of experience in fitness, health, healing, breathwork, bodywork, transformation, plant medicines and the shamanic arts to create a unique transmission that inspires, enlivens and awakens. I’m an engaging speaker with a natural passion for sharing interesting stories, references and rich personal experiences. I love bridging the gap between spirituality and science by delivering my understanding and wisdom within a practical context that inspires, motivates, and awakens new perspectives.

I bring presence, warmth, openness, heart, authenticity and integrity to my work, and I welcome people of all genders, sexualities and relationship preferences.

For people who are gendered differently and identify as LGBTQIA+, please note that the majority of my clients are cisgender male/female dynamics; therefore, I predominantly use the words male/female, man/woman and pronouns him/her/he/she in some of my online programs and articles.

I’m a professional member of SSEAA – Somatic Sex Educators Australia


Call for inquiries or to make a booking – 0420400179

Kate was born and raised on a farm just south of country town Ardrossan, South Australia. She moved to Adelaide at the beginning of her career working in pharmacy before discovering a passion in health, fitness and personal training.

Kate spent several years studying before making the transition into this new role and business of Personal Training and Fitness.

She began to develop her natural intuitive and healing ability after a near death experience at the age of 29. She continued her work as a Personal Trainer, Nutrition and Lifestyle Coach soon realising the power of the work being channeled through her.

Her interests were naturally shifting from a somewhat rigid body/mind nature, and this lead her to practicing yoga, meditation and participating in personal growth and development programs with Landmark Worldwide. The liberation that came from this transition inspired further self-curiosity and spiritual inquiry.

Kate has journeyed overseas on many occasions to work with various Shaman, Healers and Plant Spirits in Iquitos and Pucallpa, Peru, and Guatemala, Central America. Kate openly shares her story within this article – Healing and Expansion via Plant Medicines

Through her connection with Ayahuasca and other Master Plants, Kate discovered an expanded perspective, new level of healing, and soul potential. Her path of ascension was both uncomfortable and enjoyable. Soon she realised that her greatest aliveness was in her physical body, which led her to studying Conscious Sexuality and Somatic Sexology as a pathway to descending back into her physical body and this physical world.

Kate has completed the Sexual Shamanic Initiation Level I and II with ISTA, International School of Temple Arts, assisted Level I in Goa, India, has participated in Master Your Pleasure training with Elaine Young, the Shamanic Womb Journey with Janine Ma-Ree, and has studied Somatic Sexology with the Institute of Somatic Sexology (founded by Joseph Kramer) and a Certificate in Sexological Bodywork.

She has worked within various roles as a Sexological Bodyworker, Intimacy & Relationship Coach, Plant Medicine Facilitator, Counsellor, Nutrition & Life Coach, Writer, Yoga Instructor, Reiki Master, and Personal Trainer.

– Certificate II & III Community Pharmacy – National Pharmacies

– Certificate IV Frontline Management – Anthony Stone Consultants

– Certificate IV Fitness & Personal Training – TAFE

– Certificate IV Nutrition & Food Coaching – College of Creative Design Arts

– Corrective Exercise Australia Workshops – Shoulder Function, Hip and Lower Limb Function, Rehab to Performance, Flexibility

– Pelvic Floor Workshop – Core Foundations

– Landmark Worldwide – The Landmark Forum, Advanced Course, Leadership Program, Communication Course

– Certified Hatha Yoga Instructor (150 hours) – Jimmy Barkan

– Certified Hatha Yoga Level II Instructor (50 hours) – Jimmy Barkan

– Trained in Kundalini Yoga – Maestro Kartar and Devi

– Certified Yin Yoga Instructor – Duncan Peak

– Certified Reiki Level I, II, III and Master

– Completed Sexual Shamanic Initiation Level I & II – International School of Temple Arts

– Assisted Sexual Shamanic Initiation Level I – International School of Temple Arts

– Trained with Elaine Young – Master Your Pleasure

– Shamanic Womb Journey with Janine Ma-Ree

– Somatic Sexology & Certificate Sexological Bodyworker – International Institute Somatic Sexology

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“Kate was very helpful in giving us the tools to reconnect. I would recommend her to all my friends and family.” T

“I have learnt so much from you. I appreciate your calm and down to earth approach. I admire your courage in taking on this taboo subject and to really help people.” CW

“Thanks for the session, I was great for me to move forward, much better than relying on medication. I am thinking it will provide a better connection for me. Thanks again.” LP

“Thank you that was one of the best healings I’ve ever had.” T

“Oh my god, I’m integrating fantastically. I literally dropped through one of the things I was feeling shamed about. I fell into this really centred state, it felt like a higher state, and that was through the practices that we explored. I’ve been feeling really good and I can explore a lot within myself, integration is going so well. It’s bringing up a lot of stuff and I’m taking it slow and letting myself move through that gently. I’m loving it, thank you so much!” ES

“Wonderful practitioner, incredibly present, generous, articulate, passionate and a major contribution to this field of work. I could not recommend Kate more highly!” BH

“Kate is a very gentle approachable teacher who, in a quiet way, questions deep assumptions and promotes big changes in the ways we relate. Her Embodied Consent & Empowered Relating workshop is brilliant and desperately needed for teenagers.” MJ

Hi Kate,

Results tell me yesterdays session with **(wife)** went very well. We did the “homework” last night and discovered and shared lots.  We then made love twice before going to sleep. I haven’t made love twice in the same night for many many years.

Talk to you next week.



“Kate… what a beautiful human being… absolutely unique in so many ways. I had the pleasure to attend 2 workshops facilitated by her and I was truly blown away by her knowledge and approach and just the way she is… authentic, intuitive, natural and so down to earth.. her ability to explain things in a very simple way while maintaining the depth is simply fascinating… trust me you won’t get bored listening to her. I had so many realisations about myself and things that often go unnoticed in our lives or are considered ‘tabu’ just by being in her presence and tuning into her words of wisdom. I would definitely feel comfortable to have 1:1 session with her and I will very likely have one. To find a therapist like Kate is a pure blessing! She is definitely one in a million.” KP

“Thanks Kate! It was lovely to meet you. We had lots to talk about on the way home, we both got a lot from the session thank you. Eager to have a go at some homework for once! Talk soon for our next appointment.” JM

“I want to say thank you for your great material and courses. They have been truly enlightening!” JS

“Hi Kate, I’ve wanted to text much earlier, to thank you very much for Tuesday. I got lots out of it. It was good to speak out loud of things that have only swirled about in my own head for years. Plus, so much of what you talked about has expanded & deepened me in intriguing ways. It’s all very exciting!

It is the perfect time in my life to delve deeper into all this stuff – as I am finally prioritising my own life’s journey outside of being a Mum, & always wanting to give the very best of me to my kids first.

I’ve always worked fiercely to pass as few of my own wounds & hurts down to my children as possible. That has always been my absolute priority.

Thank you again very much Kate.” S

“Kate is great at getting to the heart of the issue. We’ve experienced better communication and renewed intimacy. Can’t thank you enough Kate!” P

“Thank you so very much Kate for Saturday. ***** & I got so much out of it! Thank you also for the resources you have emailed through. We so appreciate your expertise and wisdom.” S

“I felt very comfortable with you, you’re very professional.” DM

“Thank you Kate for what you do, it is important work that requires courage. I feel much lighter after our session, less bound up in mental constructs, and feeling more free to enjoy my sexuality without judging it.” – PA

​“When I first came to see you I was all over the shop. You ignited what was already within me. I feel so much more confident now when connecting with others. I even feel turned on and attracted to myself.” JH

​“Hi Kate, no need to reply.

I just wanted to say thank you for today. Please feel free share anything I write as a testimonial for your business as I do mean what I am writing.

Thank you for helping me and giving me the confidence to finally tackle an issue that I have been very embarrassed about. You took an embarrassing and a very uncomfortable situation and helped me more in 2 hours than what I have been able to achieve by myself in 6 years.

I did give up believing that nothing could be done. For you it may have been another day in the office, for me it was life changing.

If my ex and I had your help years ago I am confident that you would have been able to save our marriage.

Thank you for your help today. This is the first day in years that I am confident that with your help I will be able to participate in a healthy sexual relationship with a future partner.

Regards and thanks”


“I would highly recommend taking a leap of faith and let Kate guide you to greater self-discovery. I’m a big believer in body work and Kate is a practitioner who cares about furthering your journey.” – A.N.

“Thanks so much for today Kate! The relief and support I feel and the knowledge you have given me has give me such renewed confidence within myself, my sensuality and sexuality. I am so much more drawn to feel and trust my body. You and your work is amazing! I can see why it’s your passion! You are liberating and helping so many people. Your work is really needed.” – S.C.

“Kate is so intuitive and has really made me feel comfortable and at ease to address an issue I have had so much embarrassment and shame attached to it. In these short weeks she has given me knowledge and practices to start working through previous traumas and I am starting to see change within myself. Her ability to use her own experiences to connect and relate has also made me feel more comfortable, at ease and not alone in this journey” – B.M.

“Hey Kate, we did our homework and I wanted to tell you how much we loved it. It was such an invigorating and empowering experience that really strengthened our trust and connection. It also helped us learn a lot about ourselves and each other that we didn’t know. Thanks so much!” ~ L

“Hi Kate, been really enjoying the course. Been enjoying learning the new material and bringing additional pleasure in my life, as well as also working through some challenges and resistances along the way which is not too surprising either.” DL

“Thank you so much for your generosity Kate, wow! These resources are wonderful. I loved your hormone harmony talk on the webinar today too. I’m looking forward to sharing these many gems with my partner.” M

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